We are accustomed to reading Megillas Rus <\/em>(the book of Ruth) on Shavuos and there are several reasons for this. One of those reasons is because Shavuos is the yarzheit<\/em> of Dovid HaMelech (King David), therefore we read about his birth and about his forefathers. We all look forward to Moshiach ben Dovid and this is one of the fundamentals of our faith. The day will come \u2013 soon, please G-d \u2013 when we will all be gathered to Eretz Yisrael and there will be no more troubles and illness, no more pain and suffering. The foundation of all of this is: Dovid HaMelech.<\/p>\n Megillas Rus<\/em> primarily describes Rus the Moavite and Boaz, the Gadol Hador<\/em> (leader of the generation), who took her for a wife and how they merited to have Dovid HaMelech come from them. The Torah teaches us that if we imitate their beautiful ways, we too will merit children, grandchildren, and descendants who will illuminate the world.<\/p>\n The environment has changed<\/strong><\/p>\n One of the difficulties that we have with understanding the Kesuvim<\/em> (the Writings from Tanach, the Hebrew Bible) is that they speak of events that occurred thousands of years ago and the nature of the world has changed. In every city and in every nation, there is a certain environment, certain surroundings that change from time to time and if we don\u2019t live in those times, it\u2019s difficult for us to understand the stories that transpired in those places and at those times. As a result, we don\u2019t understand the majority of stories in history. This is the greatest problem with understanding the Kesuvim <\/em>because many things that were thousands of years ago appear otherwise today. Therefore, we need to try and enter the environment of this period relevant to Megillas Rus<\/em> and, by so doing, shed light on everything that transpired.<\/p>\n Amon and Moav \u2013 the hated nations of Israel <\/strong><\/p>\n Every nation in the world has nations that they consider to be friends and others that they consider to be enemies, earning their utter hatred. For example, even today, almost 80 years since the Holocaust, we still harbour hatred towards the Germans. We need to understand that in the period during which Megillas Rus<\/em> takes place, the most hated nations in the eyes of Am Yisrael <\/em>(the nation of Israel) were: Amon and Moav.<\/p>\n Why was this so?<\/p>\n First of all, their forefathers, Amon and Moav, after whom each of these nations were named, were mamzerim<\/em>, born from the forbidden relationship between Lot and his two daughters. So we find that, from the very beginning, these two nations were lacking in morality.<\/p>\n These two nations were the lowliest, ugliest, and most unethical that can be. The Torah commands[1]<\/a><\/sup> us, \u201cDon\u2019t bring an Amonite or a Moavite into the assembly of Hashem\u2026because they did not welcome you with bread and water when you went out from Egypt, and because they hired Balaam ben Beor\u2026to curse you.\u201d They had no hakaras hatov<\/em> (gratitude) towards Am Yisrael<\/em> for our forefather, Avraham Avinu, having saved their forefather, Lot, when Lot was taken captive in war.<\/p>\n The punishment of Elimelech and his sons<\/strong><\/p>\n Elimelech was the Gadol HaDor<\/em> (the leader of the generation). He was also very wealthy. When there was a terrible drought, he could not stand to see thousands of Jews starving. If he remained in Eretz Yisrael, he would be forced to sell his storehouses in order to feed everyone and be turned into a poor person. Am Yisrael<\/em> looked to Elimelech to help them in their time of difficulty.<\/p>\n What did Elimelech do? He took his family and left Eretz Yisrael. As if this wasn\u2019t bad enough, it only became worse when we consider their destination: Eretz Moav \u2013 to live in the company of the sworn enemies of Am Yisrael<\/em>.<\/p>\n And not only this, but Elimelech\u2019s two sons, Machlon and Kilyon, married princesses, daughters of the King of Moav, who was only too happy to have his daughters marry such important men from Am Yisrael<\/em>. In the eyes of the Jews, Elimelech and his sons were considered traitors.<\/p>\n A short time passed and these three men, Elimelech and his two sons, died.<\/p>\n Sacrificing because of love of Hashem<\/strong><\/p>\n Naomi, the wife of Elimelech, was a great tzadekas <\/em>(righteous woman), but she went along with her husband to Moav. And now, she was alone and she knew full well that she was being punished. She turned to her two daughters-in-law and informed them: \u2018I am returning to Eretz Yisrael. What has happened to me is enough; I learned a lesson.\u2019 These two princesses, said: \u2018We will return with you to your people.\u2019 But, in the end it writes, \u201cOrpah kissed her mother-in-law, but Rus clung to her.\u201d<\/p>\n We need to understand what was involved in this decision of Rus.<\/p>\n Rus knew that when she reached Eretz Yisrael, she would receive a particularly cool reception. It would be thrown in her face that she was a Moavite and that she had no right to get married to a Jew. Nevertheless, she had married a Jew and the result was that he died \u2013 meaning to say: because of you he died! Everyone would reject her and say: \u2018Go from here! A lowly person like you doesn\u2019t have a portion and an inheritance among the Jewish people!\u2019<\/p>\n But Rus loved Hashem and His Torah, and even knowing what awaited her and the reception that she would receive, she still went with Naomi and said to her, \u201cWherever you go, I will go; wherever you lodge, I will lodge. Your people shall be my people and your G-d, my G-d. Where you die, I will die and there I will be buried.\u201d \u2018I want to be close to Am Yisrael<\/em> because, by doing so, I will be close to Hashem.\u2019<\/p>\n This was truly incredible. Rus was a princess. Her father, the king, expected that she would return to him like her sister Orpah, but instead she went to Am Yisrael<\/em> to soak up shame and curses and there, instead of living a life of comfort in a magnificent palace, she would be forced for her very survival to gather stalks of grain in foreign fields, living a life of utter poverty and lacking.<\/p>\n Sometimes, when a person does an act of mesiras nefesh<\/em> (self-sacrifice), at least somebody appreciates the act. But here, because she was a Moavite, not even one person had a kind word for Rus.<\/p>\n No Moavites allowed<\/strong><\/p>\n And there was an additional problem. It wasn\u2019t clear at all if Rus would ever be able to marry a Jew. In the Torah it writes that a Moavite cannot marry a Jew. But what about a female Moavite? This subject was a machlokes<\/em> (dispute) during the generations, and, in this period, the halacha regarding this matter was still not clear, with many convinced that it was never possible for someone from Moav, either man or woman, to marry a Jew.<\/p>\n So we find a woman who gave up all of the benefits and the happy life of living in the palace of the king, and all of this in order that she could draw close to Am Yisrael<\/em> \u2013 without a penny to her name, without the ability to build a Jewish home \u2013 only because of her enormous love for Hashem!<\/p>\n Mother of kings<\/strong><\/p>\n Because of this greatness, Rus merited the description[2]<\/a><\/sup> \u201cima shal malchus<\/em>\u201d \u201cmother of kings\u201d. Were it not for Rus, there would be no Dovid HaMelech and there would be no Moshiach<\/em>. In order to merit that the Melech HaMoshiach<\/em> \u2013 the most beloved son of Hashem \u2013 would go out into the world, it required a mother with enormous love for Hashem, a love that would cause her to give up literally everything, solely from her love for Hashem.<\/p>\n Naomi tried to convince Rus to return: \u2018It\u2019s enough for you; nothing is expected of you; there will not be a husband for you, only shame and lowliness will be your portion.\u2019 But Rus would not go: \u2018I will not separate from you until the day I die and, even then, I will be buried with you, because you are my teacher; I will not be disconnected from you in any way.\u2019<\/p>\n Naomi and Rus in Beis Lechem<\/strong><\/p>\n So Naomi and Rus travelled to Beis Lechem. In this period, Boaz was the Gadol HaDor<\/em>, the Nasi<\/em> (prince), a man who was old in years, in his 80s, with an extensive family, who was recognised and respected. He was also a shofeit <\/em>(judge) and very wealthy.<\/p>\n On the day that Noami and Rus returned to Beis Lechem, the wife of Boaz had died and all of Am Yisrael<\/em> joined in her funeral. In the middle of the funeral, Naomi and Rus entered and, as expected, \u201cthe whole city made a noise about them\u201d. They were rebuked \u2013 \u201c\u2026the women said, \u2018Is this Naomi?\u2019\u201d They saw what had happened to Naomi, who previously had been the wealthiest woman in all the land. \u2018And everything that happened was because she abandoned us and betrayed us. And look who came after her; look who she brought with her \u2013 a Moavite!\u2019<\/p>\n Naomi and Rus needed to eat, so Rus went out to gather grain in the fields for them. The Megillah<\/em> tells us of the attitude of Boaz towards Rus, \u201cI have instructed the men not to bother you\u201d because if he did not say this to them, they would have thrown her out of his fields because she was a Moavite. She suffered all of this contempt in silence, gathering a little food for herself and her mother-in-law.<\/p>\n Boaz lifted the spirit of Rus <\/strong><\/p>\n Although the Moavites were despised and hated in the eyes of all Jews, Boaz recognised that Rus was someone special, taking note of her being upright and modest. He said to her, \u201cI have been told of all that you did for your mother-in-law after the death of your husband; how you left your father and mother and the land of your birth and came to a people that you had not known before. May Hashem reward your deeds and may you have a full recompense from Hashem, the G-d of Israel, under whose wings you come to seek refuge.\u201d<\/p>\n He said to her: \u2018My daughter, I know that you left your parents, your family, and all the royal treasures, and have come to take shelter under the wings of the Shechina<\/em> (Divine Presence). You are a wonderful woman who is walking in the footsteps of our holy matriarchs and Hashem will be with you.\u2019 This was the first time that Rus heard words that uplifted her spirit.<\/p>\n Rus was very excited. \u201cAnd she said, \u2018May I continue to find favour in your eyes, my lord, because you have comforted me, and because you have spoken to the heart of your maidservant.\u201d \u2018Do you know to whom you are speaking? To a Moavite! Never have I heard words like these. I have only absorbed contempt and disdain. Suddenly, the Gadol HaDor<\/em> doesn\u2019t have anyone with whom to speak other than a despicable person like me!\u2019<\/p>\n And Boaz added: \u2018I have instructed my servants not to bother you and if someone harms you, speak to me. Also, you are invited to be a guest at my table.\u2019 He wasn\u2019t satisfied with all of this: \u201cBoaz ordered his servants saying, \u2018Let her gather among the sheaves; do not embarrass her. Also, pull out for her from the sheaves [ie. deliberately] and leave them for her to take and don\u2019t berate her.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n Boaz possessed sterling character, going out of his way to uplift her. He was still not so certain about her fitness to come into the assembly of Israel because, after all, she was a Moavite, but he said to her things that caused her heart to rejoice and helped her as much as he could.<\/p>\n Naomi\u2019s request to Ruth<\/strong><\/p>\n We now come to a very deep point. When a man dies after he has had children, the children are considered a continuation of him. Machlon and Kilyon did not have children. The Torah teaches us that there is a way to build up the name of a man who dies without children and this is a tremendous chesed with the man\u2019s neshama <\/em>(soul) and this is through fulfilling the mitzvah of yibum<\/em> (levirate marriage).<\/p>\n Originally, yibum <\/em>was fulfilled though a man\u2019s closest relative \u2013 his father, where the father would marry the wife of his deceased son. But the Torah prohibited this and made it a mitzvah exclusively on the brother of the deceased man. In any case, it was considered a great matter for one of the relatives of the deceased to marry his wife and build up for him a name in the world.<\/p>\n Technically speaking, yibum<\/em> wasn\u2019t possible for Rus because there were no other brothers with whom to do it. This idea that she should marry one of Machlon\u2019s relatives was only a spiritual perception of Naomi, who sought to save the neshama<\/em> of her son because he was a great man.<\/p>\n Naomi thought that if one of Machlon\u2019s relatives would marry Rus, this would be something great for Machlon\u2019s neshama<\/em> even though, according to the halacha, there was no obligation for anyone to do so at all. Therefore, she said to Rus: \u2018I\u2019m not able to command you; I can only make a suggestion. Boaz is our cousin [Boaz was the son of Elimelech\u2019s brother, Salmon[3]<\/a><\/sup>, making him a first cousin to Machlon]. I know that he is very old, but if you married him, this would be something great for the neshama<\/em> of my son.\u2019<\/p>\n Naturally, Rus should have said: \u2018I\u2019m not interested in marrying a cousin, an old man over the age of 80, and there\u2019s no obligation for me to do so. I\u2019m still young and I want to build a home.\u2019 But Rus didn\u2019t think about anything. She informed Naomi: \u2018All that you have asked me, I will do!\u2019 This was the wondrous nature of Rus. She was prepared to sacrifice everything to be Jewish. Therefore, she merited to be \u201cthe mother of kings\u201d of the Jewish people.<\/p>\n Boaz\u2019s incredible greatness<\/strong><\/p>\n After Rus expressed her agreement, Naomi worked on arranging the shidduch<\/em> (match) between Rus and Boaz. It wasn\u2019t possible to work in the usual way and to send a shadchan<\/em> (matchmaker) to Boaz to suggest this young woman to him because no one in his right might would go to Boaz, the Gadol HaDor<\/em>, and propose such a thing. Just the suggestion alone would be an insult.<\/p>\n The only way was to approach Boaz himself, because he would certainly recognise the value of the special character of Rus. Therefore, Naomi said to Rus: \u2018Boaz sleeps on the threshing floor at night. Go to him and he\u2019ll tell you what to do.\u2019<\/p>\n So Rus returned to Boaz. Just the day before, Boaz had seen a woman gathering in his field and he noticed that she was modest and he spoke with her words of encouragement, then suddenly, in the middle of the night, he sees her lying at his feet! What would anyone do in a situation like this? He would cry out: \u2018A non-Jew like you, get out of here! Now I see that you are from the Moavites and despicable like them!\u2019<\/p>\n If he would have said this, Dovid HaMelech would never have come into the world and there would also not have been a Melech HaMoshiach<\/em>!<\/p>\n But Boaz had such sterling character. He stopped himself. He didn\u2019t become angry, but turned to her and asked her to clarify what was going on: \u201cWho are you?\u201d \u2018What are you doing here? Explain yourself!\u2019 And she answered: \u2018I\u2019ve come to save a neshama<\/em>, the neshama <\/em>of my deceased husband.\u2019 Boaz heard this and admired it very much: \u201cHe said to her, \u2018You are blessed of Hashem, my daughter. Your latest chesed is even greater than your first.\u2019\u201d \u2018This act is more beautiful than all that you have done until now.\u2019<\/p>\n A miracle<\/strong><\/p>\n In the Midrash, our Sages teach[4]<\/a><\/sup> that the response of Boaz was really a neis (miracle): \u201c[Dovid HaMelech wrote in Tehillim[5]<\/a><\/sup>] \u2019At midnight I will rise to give thanks to You because of Your righteous judgments\u2019 \u2013 the judgments that You brought upon the Amonites and the Moavites, and the righteousness that You did with my grandfather and with my grandmother [ie. Boaz and Rus], for had he [Boaz] hurried to curse her [Rus] even once, where would I [Dovid HaMelech] have come from? And it wasn\u2019t enough that he didn\u2019t curse her, but he blessed her, as it says, \u2018You are blessed of Hashem, my daughter.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n Dovid HaMelech would rise each night at midnight to give thanks that his grandfather did not say a single harsh word to his grandmother when she came to him in the field. This was in the category of great miracles. Only a venerable person like Boaz was fit to behave in such a manner.<\/p>\n On the other hand, Rus\u2019s devotion to Hashem was also unparalleled. If Naomi would not have sent her, Rus would not have done such a thing under any circumstances. It would be better for her to die than to do something like this. But Naomi said to her: \u2018You have a mission, go and save a Jewish soul.\u2019 There was great danger in what she did. Rus knew that if Boaz cursed her \u2013 even one curse \u2013 this would be the end of her; she would be lost forever. But she did not flinch from anything because Naomi sent her.<\/p>\n From these two lofty people came Dovid HaMelech!<\/p>\n The zealousness of Boaz in fulfilling a mitzvah<\/strong><\/p>\n The next morning, Boaz did not delay at all. He gathered the elders of the generation and told them what had happened with Naomi and Rus, and the need to build the family. An additional person was present: Ploni Almoni <\/em>(\u201can anonymous person\u201d, who the gemara[6]<\/a><\/sup> explains was a brother of Elimelech, ie. an uncle to Boaz), who, in terms of family connection, was a closer relative to Machlon than Boaz. Boaz suggested to Ploni Almoni<\/em> to buy the ancestral inheritance, the field belonging to Naomi\u2019s family, in order that it would remain within the family, but, together with this, the purchaser of the field would need to marry Rus.<\/p>\n Ploni Almoni<\/em>, the closest redeemer, was not interested because it was not clear whether marrying Rus was permissible, as the halacha still had not been determined. He worried that perhaps one day they would say that such a thing was not permitted and his children from that relationship would not be considered Jewish.<\/p>\n But Boaz knew how the halacha would be decided[7]<\/a><\/sup>; he knew that there was a halacha l\u2019Moshe miSinai<\/em> (a Torah law that had been orally transmitted to Moshe by Hashem on Har Sinai) that a Moavite man was forever barred from joining Am Yisrael<\/em>, but that it was permissible for a Moavite woman to convert and marry a Jew. So he proceeded without any worry in order to do a chesed with a Jewish neshama<\/em>. When he decided to do this, he didn\u2019t wait even a single day. That very night, a chuppah was arranged and Boaz and Rus were married, and before the next morning came, Boaz was dead. Had he waited even a single day, had he said: \u2018This is a mitzvah, but there\u2019s no need to hurry\u2019 \u2013 Dovid HaMelech would not have been born!<\/p>\n Accepting things with love<\/strong><\/p>\n When Rus saw that Boaz had died, she should have lifted her eyes to heaven and said: \u2018Master of the Universe, is this what I deserve? I\u2019m a princess. I lived in majestic palaces. I gave up everything. I came to Eretz Yisrael<\/em> by foot, despite being able to travel in a carriage. When I arrived, I received a cold reception, everyone humiliated me, but this didn\u2019t concern me, the main thing was to be close to Am Yisrael<\/em>. And Naomi, my teacher, said to me that I should marry this old man for the sake of her son because only this could save his neshama<\/em>, and so I did this too. I married him and now he is dead. Is this what I deserve, Hashem?\u2019<\/p>\n But Rus didn\u2019t get angry; she accepted everything from Hashem with love. And when her son was born, she took him to Naomi, her mother-in-law, and said: \u2018My dear mother-in-law, this son who was born to me has the neshama<\/em> of your son, my husband who died. Baruch Hashem, we fulfilled the mitzvah completely.\u2019<\/p>\n Rus merited seeing with her eyes not only Dovid HaMelech, but also his son, Shlomo HaMelech (King Solomon), as well as the Beis HaMikdash<\/em> (Temple). Our Sages say[8]<\/a><\/sup>, \u201cRus the Moavite saw the kingship of Shlomo, the grandson of her grandson, as it says[9]<\/a><\/sup>, \u2018\u2026he [Shlomo HaMelech] had a throne placed for the queen mother\u2026\u2019, and Rabbi Elazar said: for the mother of kings [Rus].\u201d After all that Rus suffered, after her incredible devotion to Hashem and to His Torah, she merited to get nachas<\/em> and to see the Beis HaMikdash<\/em> that her descendent, Shlomo HaMelech, built, as well as Am Yisrael<\/em> in all its glory.<\/p>\n The lessons to be learned from the Megillah<\/strong><\/p>\n Rus proved to Am Yisrael <\/em>that the true character of a Jew is not something that must be inherited. Despite her being from the lowliest of nations, she merited to develop refined character and to perfect her character traits \u2013 to teach us that we don\u2019t need to learn such things from our parents. If a person will acquire and perfect for himself the quality of chesed, like Rus did, it\u2019s in his power to bring Moshiach<\/em> into the world. We see too that Hashem does not forget our devotion to Him in dark times, and that, in the end, there will be light and joy for one so devoted, just like there was for Rus. And from Boaz we can learn to emulate the great quality of not getting angry immediately \u2013 to know when to control ourselves; to be careful not to step on people and not to insult their failings; and to be zealous whenever a mitzvah comes into our hands.<\/p>\n Based on Tiferes Shimshon al HaTorah Bamidbar \u2013 Chag HaShavuos<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n The mother of kings By: Robert Sussman We are accustomed to reading Megillas Rus (the book of Ruth) on Shavuos and there are several reasons for this. One of those reasons is because Shavuos is the yarzheit of Dovid HaMelech (King David), therefore we read about his birth and about his forefathers. We all look forward to Moshiach ben Dovid and this is one of the fundamentals of our faith. The day will come \u2013 soon, please G-d \u2013 when we will all be gathered to Eretz Yisrael and there…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":2107,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[65],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2085","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-may-2020"],"gutentor_comment":0,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishlife.co.za\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2085","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishlife.co.za\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishlife.co.za\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishlife.co.za\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishlife.co.za\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2085"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishlife.co.za\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2085\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2100,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishlife.co.za\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2085\/revisions\/2100"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishlife.co.za\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2107"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishlife.co.za\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2085"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishlife.co.za\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2085"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewishlife.co.za\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2085"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}\n