Following the recent Pittsburgh massacre, Hashem yikom damam (may Hashem avenge their blood), debate raged in the US over whether Jews should begin carrying and training with firearms as a \u201cdeterrence\u201d to future such incidents, Hashem yerachem (G-d have mercy).<\/p>\n
So, it\u2019s worthwhile to discuss, what is the Jewish approach to violence?<\/p>\n
\u201cYou could have killed someone!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n When Yaakov was about to meet up with his brother, Eisav, who he feared wanted to kill him and who was approaching with an army of 400 men, the Torah tells us, \u201cAnd Yaakov was very afraid and distressed.\u201d Rashi explains that Yaakov was \u201cvery afraid\u201d that he would be killed and \u201cdistressed\u201d that he would kill others. In other words, Yaakov feared not only the possibility of being killed, but also \u2013 and even more so \u2013 he feared that he would be placed in a position where he might have to kill others.<\/p>\n Rabbi Shimshon Dovid Pincus recalls that, when he was a young man, he once had a traffic accident during which the car that he was driving flipped over. Thank G-d, he only suffered a few minor cuts, but, nonetheless, he was admitted to the hospital. A police officer came to investigate what had happened and Rabbi Pincus explained that he was a new driver and he had lost control of the car.<\/p>\n A week later, he saw his Rosh Yeshiva, Rabbi Yoshe Ber Soloveitchik of Yeshivas Brisk in Israel and, like the police officer, the Rosh Yeshiva wanted to know what had happened. Again, Rabbi Pincus described in detail what had transpired. The sharp response from Rav Yoshe Ber made a tremendous impression on Rabbi Pincus: \u201cOy, you could have killed someone!\u201d Take note, the Rosh Yeshiva did not respond, \u201cYou could have been killed,\u201d but rather, \u201cYou could have killed someone!\u201d<\/p>\n Rabbi Pincus couldn\u2019t help but marvel and contrast this response of Rav Yoshe Ber with that of the police officer, whose role it was to guard human lives. When he had explained what had happened to the police officer, the response was simply, \u201cAh, okay,\u201d as though that settled everything in the police officer\u2019s mind. Rav Yoshe Ber, on the other hand, looked at Rabbi Pincus like he was meshuga (mad). How was it possible that a Jew could find himself in a situation where he was liable to kill another human being?! So why don\u2019t we react like this? Why isn\u2019t our initial reaction a fear of killing others?<\/p>\n Steeped in violence<\/strong><\/p>\n We live in a generation in which violence rules at every turn. We find so-called \u201centertainment\u201d in seeing the latest movies filled with scene after scene of graphic and intense violence, the more realistic the better \u2013 vivid images of people getting assaulted, maimed, murdered, raped, etc \u2013 all within stories of revenge, payback, and fantasy. The atmosphere around the world is full of violence. And, as we saw, for example, with the recent French yellow jacket movement, when people feel that their rights have been denied, they immediately threaten with unrelenting violence until their demands are met. If someone should humiliate or demean another person, immediately that person will raise his hand and react with violence, sometimes to the point of bloodshed. Road rage has become normal and even expected. This is what happens today in the world. Someone spits on a person and the response is to take his head off! We need to stop this erosion and not drift after this atmosphere of violence that exists in the world, because the view of the Torah regarding the use of violence \u2013 even the smallest amount of violence \u2013 is completely different to what we see in the world around us.<\/p>\n Just kill him!<\/strong><\/p>\n The Torah tells[1]<\/a><\/sup> us that when Yaakov arrived at the house of Lavan and he saw his future wife, Rochel, he immediately \u201craised his voice and cried\u201d. Rashi explains why Yaakov was crying: \u201cBecause he came empty-handed, saying, \u2018Eliezer, the servant of my grandfather, Avraham, brought with him nose rings, bracelets, and other precious items, and I don\u2019t have anything in my hands.\u2019\u201d Why did Yaakov arrive empty-handed? Because Yaakov\u2019s nephew, Eliphaz, had been commanded by his father, Eisav, to pursue his uncle and kill him. Eisav hated Yaakov, believing that Yaakov had \u201cstolen\u201d \u201chis brochas\u201d from their father, Yitzchak. Eliphaz, however, having grown up on the lap of his grandfather Yitzchak, struggled to fulfil the instruction of his father, knowing it was wrong. Yaakov told him, \u201cTake what I have; a poor person is considered like a dead person.\u201d In other words, Yaakov explained to Eliphaz that if he took everything that Yaakov had, he could honestly tell his father that he had \u201ckilled\u201d his uncle, leaving Yaakov for dead.<\/p>\n Eliphaz came with the intent to kill Yaakov. The rule is: if someone comes to kill you, you can kill him first. Yaakov was much stronger than Eliphaz. When Yaakov encountered Rochel by the well, where she was waiting to give water to her father\u2019s sheep, Yaakov singlehandedly lifted the incredibly heavy stone that covered the well. Rashi explains that the Torah wanted to teach us about Yaakov\u2019s tremendous strength, noting that, for Yaakov, lifting the stone off the well was like removing a cork from a flask. So, we see that Yaakov really did not need to surrender to Eliphaz and give Eliphaz all of his property; he could have simply killed Eliphaz! So, why didn\u2019t he?<\/p>\n The absolute last resort<\/strong><\/p>\n While it\u2019s true that if someone comes to kill us we can kill him first, that shouldn\u2019t be our first choice. In fact, far from it \u2013 it should be our absolute last resort. Only after a person has considered every other possibility and it appears that there\u2019s simply no other way for him to save himself, should he even raise a hand against another human being! Even though it entailed having him yield all of his property, it was better that Yaakov should be rendered wretchedly poor than that he should kill another person.<\/p>\n For us, this question \u2013 why didn\u2019t Yaakov just kill Eliphaz? \u2013 is very troublesome. What do you mean?! Someone comes to kill you, kill him! Because, by us, killing is the first option that we think of. But, in truth, it needs to be the last one. We must do everything in our power to never raise a hand against another human being, and certainly not kill someone.<\/p>\n Hands down<\/strong><\/p>\n Some will argue that there is a distinction between killing someone and just causing someone harm, but it\u2019s really not so simple. We have to be careful with the money of another person and not cause damage to it. Why? The Torah teaches us that the money that belongs to someone is like his soul. In several places our Sages stress that the theft of money from someone is actually comparable to taking the person\u2019s soul. When speaking on an employee\u2019s wages, the Torah uses[2]<\/a><\/sup> the following language, \u201c\u2026give [a labourer] his wage\u2026for he is a poor man, and upon it [ie. his wage] he bears his soul\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n Rabbi Chaim Vital would say over about his Rebbe, the Ari HaKodesh, that before the Ari would daven mincha, he made sure to pay all of the people that worked for him that day, saying, \u201cHow can I show my face before G-d and hold the soul of my fellow in my hand.\u201d A coin that belongs to someone, this is a piece of the person\u2019s soul \u2013 holding, taking, or damaging that coin is like holding, taking, or damaging the soul of one\u2019s fellow, and all the more so when it comes to raising a hand against a person. Jews always knew: raising a hand against another person is the very last resort.<\/p>\n Concern for life<\/strong><\/p>\n Rabbi Yechezkel Sarna, a talmid of the Alter of Slabodka, was the Rosh Yeshiva of Yeshivas Chevron during the 1929 Chevron Massacre, in which Arabs slaughtered 24 bochurim from the yeshiva, among many other Jews. At the time of the incident, an English police officer was present and people begged him, \u201cDo something!\u201d But, the police officer did nothing. When the Arabs rioting began to hit him also, this English police officer fired a single shot into the air and everyone scattered. Several years later, someone said to Rabbi Yechezkel, \u201cThe bochurim of the yeshiva need to be armed. If there had been a bochur with a gun and a single bullet \u2013 there would not have been all of the rioting!\u201d Rabbi Yechezkel said, \u201cLet there be pogroms and so on, but a bochur will not have a gun!\u201d<\/p>\n In the world in which we live today, who can comprehend such an attitude? Today, the concern for human life is almost non-existent [think abortion (which can now even be accomplished by simply taking a pill within the first 50 days of pregnancy), euthanasia, etc.]. We travel in a hurry, so often distracted as we drive, going around without thinking and the unspeakable, irreversible harm that we can potentially cause. Life has become worth nothing, and other people\u2019s money also has no value in our eyes.<\/p>\n The Torah doesn\u2019t change. Raising a hand, or even a curse, was always the last resort \u2013 so were Jews accustomed to behave in all generations. A Jew didn\u2019t have a sharp word go out from his mouth, let alone a curse, and even more so raise a hand or, worse, do harm to another person. The possibility of killing Eliphaz did not even occur as an option to Yaakov, as his father, Yitzchak, said, expressing his uncertainty as to who was standing before him, not sure if it was Yaakov or Eisav: \u201cThe voice is the voice of Yaakov, but the hands are the hands of Eisav.\u201d A Jew doesn\u2019t use his hands \u2013 hands are for Eisav. In the world in which we live, we need a lot of reinforcement to grasp this message, to know how important the matter is.<\/p>\n An awesome power<\/strong><\/p>\n Why is it so serious to curse, or to harm, and certainly to kill another human being, especially another Jew?<\/p>\n The prophet Isaiah (55:9) says, \u201cAs the Heavens are high above the earth, so My ways [ie. Hashem\u2019s] are above your ways and My thoughts are above your thoughts.\u201d There is Elokim (G-d as referred to by His name that indicates that He is All-Powerful) and there is man. There is the world of G-d and there is our world. The Torah, however, reveals to us that we live in Hashem\u2019s world and that we were created \u201cbtzelem Elokim\u201d \u2013 in the image of G-d, of Elokim.<\/p>\n This tiny creature called man is, in fact, comparable to G-d. How so? The power that man carries in his hands, it is a G-dly power. It\u2019s hard to appreciate just how the word Elokim expresses this concept of G-d being All-Powerful. Are we able to imagine for ourselves the power of Elokim?! The Torah says to man: you must know that you are created in G-d\u2019s likeness; there is in your hands an awesome power!<\/p>\n A powerful lesson<\/strong><\/p>\n We find a significant illustration of this in Tanach[3]<\/a><\/sup> (the Hebrew Bible). Dovid HaMelech (King David) was fleeing from his son, Avshalom. In a display of tremendous chutzpah, Avshalom had crowned himself king, usurping the throne from his father, Dovid. Shmuel HaNavi (Samuel the Prophet) tells us, \u201cKing Dovid came to Bachurim and there was a man who went out from the family of Shaul [who was king before Dovid], whose name was Shimei ben Geira, and he went out cursing [Dovid]. He threw stones at Dovid. All of Dovid\u2019s servants and the entire nation and all of his soldiers were at his right and at his left.\u201d<\/p>\n The Rambam and the Shulchan Aruch pasken (rule halachically) that one who rebels against the king is deserving of the death penalty. Shimei ben Geira had the audacity to not only curse and throw stones at the king, but to insult him, saying, \u201cGet out, get out! Man (who has committed) bloodshed! Evil man! Hashem is paying you back for your crimes against the House of Shaul, whose throne you took and He is giving the throne to your son, Avshalom!\u201d The chutzpah of Shimei ben Geira is, quite simply, stunning. Did Dovid \u201csteal\u201d the throne? Shmuel HaNavi coronated Dovid king in accordance with Hashem\u2019s instruction!<\/p>\n One of Dovid\u2019s soldiers, Avishai ben Tzuriya, queried why this man, this \u201cdead dog\u201d, as Avishai called him, was being allowed to curse Dovid and asked permission from Dovid to cut the man\u2019s head off. But Dovid HaMelech pushed off the suggestion, saying, \u201cWhat is this to you son of Tzuriya?\u201d (ie. you think you understand everything that goes on in the world?<\/p>\n Dovid did not let anyone kill Shimei ben Geira and our Sages explain[4]<\/a><\/sup> that, several generations later, when it was decreed and sealed in Heaven that the entire Jewish people should be killed and destroyed, along came Mordechai \u2013 a descendant of Shimei ben Geira! \u2013 and abolished the decree. If Avishai had cut off Shimei ben Geira\u2019s head, there would not be a Jewish people, there would not be a world, there would not be anything. [So too, the Ben Ish Chai writes regarding the episode previously discussed with Yaakov and Eliphaz that Yaakov saw via ruach hakodesh (Divine inspiration) that Onkelos HaGer, who was responsible for recovering the forgotten Aramaic translation of the Torah[5]<\/a><\/sup>, would descend from Eliphaz.]<\/p>\n Even though according to the law it was apparently permissible to kill Shimei, King David said: No! Don\u2019t be so fast to cut off heads! Look at what rests in a single act of killing a person; look at the devastation and destruction that can come from it. This is the power of Elokim!<\/p>\n Tanks a lot <\/strong><\/p>\n Imagine placing a three-year-old child inside of an armoured tank. Before you do so, you obviously warn him a thousand times: \u201cListen, darling, you have an enormous power in front of you; no matter what happens: don\u2019t push any buttons.\u201d Hashem says to man: know that you are like a three-year-old child who does not understand anything, and with one small act you are liable to destroy every Jew in the world. So, don\u2019t push any buttons! Don\u2019t raise your hand! Don\u2019t open your mouth! Be careful with every action that you take.<\/p>\n This is why Jews never raised their hands and didn\u2019t open their mouths to curse, because it\u2019s simply impossible to know what the result will be and the enormous damage that we may cause. Don\u2019t be so fast to curse; don\u2019t be so fast to take action. Jews suffer all of the hardships in the world, but the last thing that they should do is to touch someone \u2013 in his soul, in his honour, and in his money. That\u2019s how Jews have always lived, and so also how we should conduct ourselves today.<\/p>\n In the violent world that we live in, we need to be very strong and know the truth that a Jew never raises his hand or acts violently because he fears the enormous power inherent in his every deed and word.<\/p>\n Based on Tiferes Shimshon Al HaTorah Bereishis (Parshas Vayishlach) <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n The world in which we live often stands at odds with the timeless values of the Torah and the prevailing atmosphere of violence and utter disregard for human life and property which have come to be the norm everywhere is certainly no exception By: Robert Sussman Following the recent Pittsburgh massacre, Hashem yikom damam (may Hashem avenge their blood), debate raged in the US over whether Jews should begin carrying and training with firearms as a \u201cdeterrence\u201d to future such incidents, Hashem yerachem (G-d have mercy). 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